Wednesday, July 7, 2010

Worst is sometimes the Best

Tons of people are thinking "I can do it!", "We can make it!", or "Something good will happen!".
There is a lot of people who are optimist and thinking that any problem can be solve by thinking positive. They bring out the positive energy out them and make the problem solving more enjoyable handle. Well, that might be the solution to every solution. Think of something good, something positive so that your problem would look more easier. But what if we think a little opposite. Think negative. Be a pessimist.

Being a pessimist is not bad. It is even good. Thinking negative will give you a different outlook in your life. Here is the things that you would happen when you let your mind go antagonistic.
  1. Harbor negative thoughts - before you gain the pessimistic view that you wanted you must, of course, first gather all the negative thoughts. The thoughts should be related on your problem because if not those precious time will just be wasted. So sit and think. The best question to ask is "What if?". "What if I fail?", "What if I wasn't able to raise enough money", or "What if someone else get the job I wanted?". There are tons to think of. Just be creative and spontaneous and you will generate a massive amount of negative thoughts. More negative thoughts means negative energy.
  2. Select, select, select - having about 10 - 20 possibilities in your mind is enough. When you reach that point select the your worst negative thought or simply choose the one that suits you. Choosing the former would let your mind go chaotic and haywire. The more you think of the consequence of your failure the more you will not be able to focus on your problem. And you choose the latter you will be able to set your mind in a good mood and be able to work on your problem in a smooth. Just be wise in choosing what scenario that you want.
  3. Act on it- basically you now have fear of failing , fear of screwing things up and fear of doing crap. Just keep that fear because fear is your friend. Treat this fear as a motivation rather than a hindrance in your way. Fearing that you will fail will give you a motivation to study more, research more, practice more and seek for more answers to your problems. But if you let fear engulfs you and let control of you it will put you in a very long coma. Not physically but it will halt all of your operations if you keep thinking of the consequences. In order to avoid this such mistake act on it. Act fast, accurate and precise.
Conclusion

Being pessimist is not bad. Being negative is not. Sometimes, it is only the way so that a person can work well and have a good results. But in order to be able to turn this negative thoughts into motivational thoughts the person should know to handle their fears. They should know how to act on it and take out the good things out it.

Just a reminder. Fear is your friend!

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